Module 2 Lesson 1. The journey together Ways to stay connected Here are some tips for partners on how to maintain intimacy. Tip Use touch, hold hands or do a gentle massage to communicate warmth, connection, safety and love. Use music – it is truly a universal language. Play music that the person you care for likes and that makes them feel good. Try to maintain your sense of humour. This will help reduce frustration and tension. Talk with them about what they like and need – it’s an important conversation to have more than once, as things change over time.