Module 2 Lesson 4. Involving others and getting support What would you like to get more help with? Before you ask someone for help, it is important to know what it is you would like to ask. It can help to make a wish list of your needs. Let’s first have a look at Li, David and Fatima. You can see their wish lists below. Li I would like one evening for myself to do a hobby or activity. I would like help with cleaning the house. David I would like to have someone I can talk to about my feelings. Fatima I would like to get into contact with other carers to share my experiences and receive tips.