Let’s see how the cycle works with a different example.

Neil wants to assist his father-in-law, Amit, in taking a bath because Amit needs to see a doctor. Neil says: “it is time for your bath”. Amit refuses. Neil has little time and tugs on his father-in-law’s arm. He says: “you need to bathe because you’re going to see the doctor.” Amit pulls his arm back and resists. He is much stronger than Neil. Neil tugs it again and says angrily: “you must take a bath because you are going to the doctor and need to be clean”. Amit gets very angry, shouts and even tries to shove Neil, who becomes upset.