Module 3 Lesson 2. Making time for pleasant activities Barriers to doing pleasant activities Let’s go back to Mehar’s example Let’s go back to Mehar’s example (Barriers to doing pleasant activities) Mehar dedicates most of her time to caring for her mother who has dementia. She does not receive any help and is tired all the time. She is struggling to care for her mother and has stopped doing the things she likes because she feels that she does not have enough time. Eventually, Mehar is so tired that she decides to ask her cousin for help. She is now able to make some time for herself and engage in pleasant activities, for example, going over for chai and a catchup at her friend’s house. Mehar feels more energized afterwards. She also feels that she is better able to handle the care for her mother as a result. Other reasons you may feel unable to do pleasant activities Not having time was the reason that Mehar did not feel as though she could do any pleasant activities. However, there are several other reasons.