Relaxation activities 4. Relaxation activity – Number counting You can relax by focusing on your breathing and counting back from 20 to 1. This exercise will take: 5 minutes. This is how you do it: Sit or lie down comfortably in a quiet place. Breath slowly. With each breath, take at least 3 seconds to breathe in and 6 seconds to breath out. Focus on your breathing and your lower stomach when you breathe until you feel calm and peaceful inside your heart and mind. Say the word ‘relax’ whenever you breathe out. Tell yourself that you will start counting down from 20 to 1. Tell yourself that you will double your level of relaxation for each and every count, and will be totally relaxed when you reach 1. Start counting down from 20 to 1 slowly. Say the word ‘relax’ whenever you count (that is, take a deep breath, say ‘20’, breathe out slowly and say ‘relax’, take a deep breath, count ‘19’, breathe out slowly and say ‘relax’, and so on). Now repeat this exercise but with your eyes closed.